A Gay Christmas

The Triangle Gay Men’s Chorus had a limp little skit as part of their recent Christmas concert about a queen who is left alone on Christmas Day and looks back on all of the relationships that didn’t work out. The tag line apparently was that it didn’t matter because he was Jewish anyway.  I never got the point of the story or how it tied in with the Christian carols they sang.  I guess it was supposed to be funny, but it fell flat.

But it fit the stereotype of what most people think gay life is like —a series of sexual adventures that end in emptiness and loneliness in a bar grousing about the holidays. But that cliché ignores the many happy couples, and the numbers keep growing.  Gays and lesbians are having families now, and not just children from former straight marriages. The heart of the issue is the definition of what constitutes a family, and is it limited only to blood relatives. But I drift from the point of how gays spend their holidays, including Christmas.

The most significant misconception is that all LGBT people are anti-religion and live totally outside of the church or any established religion.  The term Gay Christians is considered an oxymoron. It’s true that many gays have been rejected by the church and have left in disgust.  But there are many organizations and individual congregations or synagogues that are welcoming and accepting of the LGBT community.  Just check out the HRC web site of affiliated religious groups: http://www.hrc.org/resources/category/religion-faith

A list of affirming denominations and local congregations can be found at:

http://www.gaychurch.org/affirming-denominations/

American Society has changed to where the ways in which you celebrate Christmas are more related to your ethnic, religious, and cultural background rather than whether you are gay or straight.  Even Christians around the world don’t celebrate Christmas in the same way. I discovered that the church was very late in adopting Christmas as a holiday.  I was enlightened recently by a little book by Ace Collins

Stories Behind the Great Traditions of Christmas that revealed the origins of the traditions, customs, and myths surrounding Christmas:

http://www.amazon.com/Stories-Behind-Great-Traditions-Christmas-ebook/dp/B000SH7VIO/ref=sr_1_3?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1387404268&sr=1-3&keywords=ace+collins

And finally I would close with a link to Chris Glaser’s blog:

http://chrisglaser.blogspot.com/2013/12/nativity-stories.html?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+ProgressiveChristianReflectionsByChrisGlaser+%28Progressive+Christian+Reflections+by+Chris+Glaser%29&utm_content=My+Yahoo

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3 responses to “A Gay Christmas

  1. Kay C

    Take a listen to LZ’s TED Talk, “LZ Granderson: The myth of the gay agenda.” A humorous look filled with great evidence about the “gay lifestyle” and “gay agenda.”

  2. thanks for the link. very cogent discussion of the issue